At an out-of-state wedding recently, I fell into conversation with a cheerful gentleman whom I didn’t know from Adam. Or Eve for that matter.
Upon hearing that I was from New York City he inquired if the subways were as bad as ever.
I replied that they were quite pleasant nowadays, and compared to the 1970s the experience was comparable to traveling first class on the Orient Express.
“That’s hardly likely.” He declared.
“Why not?” I rose to the challenge.
“Because on the news every night, it’s one thing after another, murders, robberies, all manner of mayhem.”
“What station do you watch?”
“Fox,” he smiled, “like any sane person!”
The official map of the New York City Subway.
I began to look for an exit, but it was four deep at the bar, besides my drink was barely dented.
“Listen,” said I, cornered but unbowed, “I’ve never seen as many cops on the trains, or in the stations since this new mayor got in.”
“You support that lunatic?”
I wasn’t sure if I did, but Hizzoner Eric Adams had made a promise to make the subways safer, and in my book, at least, he’d kept it,
From there the conversation degenerated, culminating in an exchange of views on a certain Republican presidential candidate. Who knows what would have transpired if the bride and groom hadn’t been called upon to hit the boards for their first wedded dance.
And there we left it, after shaking hands graciously, but this chance clash of opinions got me thinking.
I occasionally take a taxi, or an Uber, but like most New Yorkers I’m a subway rider.
We live in a very violent country that boasts more guns than people. And although shootings are down 26% in our city in the last year, you still should be aware of anyone approaching you from behind, and that’s unlikely with Taylor Swift massaging your eardrums.
Why? Because they run frequently, 24/7, pretty much on time, are relatively inexpensive and safe. With a 0 .0001% chance of any violence being visited upon you, you’re more likely to get hit by a cyclist or car on the city’s streets.
That being said, there are certain rules to be followed, including always keep your eyes peeled – although you’re not in Columbus, Ohio where violent crime per capita is higher, there is always a need to be vigilant in New York.
Stand with your back to a wall, if possible, and do not approach the yellow border next to the tracks. The train won’t come any quicker because you lean over to check its progress.
Don’t stand in clumps - keep the walkway open. And above all, be courteous. New Yorkers value manners.
There are still some homeless people who ride the subways, although the numbers have greatly decreased. Respect them. There go you but for good fortune.
As always, New York is in flux, rents are high, the poor are finding it harder to get by, and there is great income disparity.
Still, for the most part, our citizenry coexists peacefully. It’s hard to find a more friendly city, and I’ve been way lonelier in many a small town.
The curse of the NYC subways - and the city in general - is the rise of ear-buds, earphones, and the like.
We live in a very violent country that boasts more guns than people. And although shootings are down 26% in our city in the last year, you still should be aware of anyone approaching you from behind, and that’s unlikely with Taylor Swift massaging your eardrums.
Why anyone would want to program their own soundtrack is baffling anyway. There’s a rhythm and a beat to New York unique to the city. It’s why Bob Dylan, Henry Miller, Miles Davis, Edward Hopper, Joey Ramone, Walt Whitman, LL Cool J, and so many others lived and worked here.
None of them wore ear-buds above or below ground. They moved to the tempo of Gotham like millions of the rest of us. They watched, listened, and sidestepped to let their fellow citizens hurry past.
They avoided becoming part of that almost non-existent 0.001% that have been victimized on our streets or subways; of course, you’d never know this from watching, listening to or reading the sensationalist media outlets that exult in misfortune in order to sell advertisements or mold political views.
Brendan Behan hit the nail on the head with his observation that New York City “is a place where you’re least likely to be bitten by a wild goat.”
Should I ever run into my wedding acquaintance again I’ll mention this to him. Perhaps, he’ll come visit.
